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How do we explain how these couples got together? Could it be that in many cases, it is simply true love, or are there other reasons? Looking for ulterior motives to explain atypical pairings of mature men meb much younger women, some have advanced theories about women seeking older men due to relational dynamics with their own fathers.

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Research in this area, accordingly, has sought to distinguish truth from fiction. Relational Attachment and Age.

Sara Skentelbery and Darren Fowler investigated the attachment styles of heterosexual women who date older men. They also recognize the commonly held belief yoknger women who date men who are 10 or more years older have unhealthy relationships with their fathers.

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But is it true? According to their research, the answer is no. Further, Skentelbery and Fowler found no significant difference in attachment styles between women in similar-age relationships and women in age-gap relationships. In fact, they found that 74 percent of the women in yohnger relationships enjoyed a relationship within which they were securely attached.

Apparently many couples with age differences enjoy healthy, fulfilling, loving relationships.

Having come together without ulterior motives or emotional childhood issues, many such pairings are strong, stable, and able to withstand societal scrutiny. We can safely ho that there will always be couples that seek to pair up for ulterior motives, perhaps in pursuit of a marriage of convenience.

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But research also seems to suggest that, happily, true love is still alive and. Wendy L.

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An age gap can be good, it can be bad and it can be downright creepy. It seems to be rather popular.

Daisy is now married; her husband is 17 years older than. We tend to portray older men as more romantic, wiser and kinder.

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Professor Fugere points out that this phenomenon persists throughout our lives, as men age they prefer even younger partners while as women age they continue to prefer older partners until around the age of Is this what attracted her to him in the first place? Similarly, Susan not her why older men go for younger women name is 27 and currently about to meb in with her year-old boyfriend Shaun yep, not his name.

I fucking hate. In the effort to prove that they can still attract younger women, middle-aged men are the ones who are rendering their peers "sexually invisible.

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Media critic Jennifer Pozner points out why older men go for younger women part of the problem is the premature aging of older women in Hollywood. Take Fireflies in the Gardenthe film in which year-old Julia Roberts plays the mother of 34 year-old Ryan Reynolds.

Or look at the late lamentable reality show Age of Lovewhich featured a grotesque competition wommen "kittens" in their 20s and "cougars" in their 40s.

As Pozner wrote in her book Reality Bites Back"The kittens hang out in their apartment hula-hooping in bikinis, while the cougars toronto swinging needlepoint, read, and do the laundry because why older men go for younger women what worn-out old crones.

The reasons older men chase younger women have less to do with sex and everything to do with g profound desire to reassure ourselves that we've still got hot woman wants nsa Alamosa. It's not that women our own age are less attractive, it's that they lack the culturally-based power to reassure our fragile, aging egos that we are still hot and hip and filled with potential.

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Inspiring desire in women young enough to be our daughters becomes the most potent of all anti-aging remedies, particularly when we can show off our much younger dates to our peers.

Womdn famous little red sports car reveals only the size of our bank account; attracting a girl barely out of her teens or, if we're in our fifties, barely out of her twenties validates the enduring power of our youthful appeal.

Older women are encouraged to fight what one called "the slow slide into sexual invisibility" not only with cosmetics, but with the realistic acceptance of their own aging. For many women, what ages right along with olxer is the type of man to whom they're attracted.

As Amy, 43, put it, "I don't mind that most guys in their 20s or 30s don't flirt with me anymore. They aren't what I'm looking dhy.

But that same data shows that men fight the same "slow slide" with frantic denial, a denial that manifests itself in a compulsive need to pursue women substantially younger than themselves, all the while pleading to be seen as atypical for their age. We may why older men go for younger women want to still be hot when we're on the high side of yougner The question is, to whom do we want to be sexually "visible?

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Hugo Schwyzer is a professor of gender studies and history at Pasadena City College and a nationally-known speaker on sex, woemn, and masculinity. The A.